Please let me know your thoughts after your reading! This list will get you started—I am sure to add more!
The Irreducible Needs of Children by T Berry Brazelton and Stanley Greenspan
(ANY books by T Berry Brazelton are most worthwhile!)
Mind in the Making: 7 Essential Life Skills that Every Child Needs by Ellen Galinsky
Multiple Intelligences by Howard Gardner
Frames of Mind by Howard Gardner
Intelligence Reframed by Howard Gardner
The Read Aloud Handbook by Jim Trelease